Moving up on the "People Who Deserve Happiness" list

Continuing the series on beliefs that we have to deal with when we leave an abuser --   “I don’t make good decisions.” A victim lives with a...

 One of the biggest false beliefs that held me in my relationship for far too long was:  On my own, I can’t make it in the outside world. Wh...

If it’s going to be, it’s up to me . I hate that saying. But, it’s true. People who love us can help, but it’s our job to change our lives f...

One of the biggest questions I struggled with when I left my abuser was: How did I get into this mess? I continually berated myself for bein...

After leaving a violent relationship, I wanted to put it all behind me and move out into the world as if the abuse never happened. That’s a ...

Valentine’s day has come and gone. The talk on my Facebook page and in our groups has been about the yearning for ex-partners even though th...

It’s easy to get so excited about what the new year can hold that we conger up big plans. We are going to change every aspect of our life th...